Have you ever felt that Some people living their life at the mercy of other people? Not living in the present, because they are stuck in the prison of their past. If you want to live a great life? Then don’t allow yourself to be controlled by any of these Little Voices, because these little voices are like a slow poison. they will kill you slowly that you can’t even feel, can’t even think or imagine that you are attacked by slow poison.
1 Never Live In Your Past...
Never allow your past to control your present or your future life. Whatever happened, you must let it go. Leave the pain of your past behind, so it cannot ruin your future. Leave the darkness of your past behind, so it cannot block the light of your bright future. Your past is gone. Whatever happened whether unjust, cruel, harsh whatever the case is, use them as a weapon to reach your goal instead of spoiling your bright future and the present you are living in. If someone has done something wrong to you, the only way that you can win is if you let those clutter clear and move on. If you live in hate, they win. If you live in the victim story, they win. If you want to win, you must focus on building your future instead of living in the past. So start Irish now. Release that weight from your back so you can feel lighter. Don't ever allow the events of the past, which are gone to ruin this moment, which is perfectly fine to live. This moment. which is now to enjoy. Which is ready to live your true life.
Two years ago I used to be in the same situation, for whatever happened to me in my past. Can you imagine what happened to me being in past? Got addicted to drugs, I found that nobody understanding me, I felt alone, always use to be frustrated without any valid reason, damaged so many valuable assets, became one of the hell hated Guy for my family, for my friends, for almost everyone surrounded me. And finally ended up nowhere except realizing them. After wasting so much of my precious time without valuing them. Then one day I met one of my Friend came to me and said he is going through a very tough situation in his life. He doesn't want to live anymore, wants to leave this world so his family friend and his girlfriend can feel happy if he dies. That's what he wanted. I went a bit closer to him and asked him in a little slow voice emotionally what happened? What made you so bad in your life that you are going to end up? He said nobody likes him in his family, nobody understanding his feelings, his girlfriend left him, lost his job, and so on. Then I got my answer that day, there is not only me who suffered that kind of pain or setbacks in life. There are so many other people in this world like me, who are going through very tough situations in their life. so there is no point to be upset about it, there is no point to be frustrated and mainly you have to come out from that little bad moment which is gone. The only thing that can change you forever by controlling your "Little Voice" which is chattering inside of your mind. Tell them to shut-up. And you have to understand that it's not over for you.
2 Other Peoples Opinions And Judgements...
Never allow other people's opinions and judgment to control the direction of your life. They make you need to fit in and feel wanted, which can cause you to travel down paths that you don't want to travel. People-pleasing is a curse, that should be avoided at any cost. If you allow such "Little voice" which are already stored in your mind to control your journey? Then no power on this earth that can save you. Those voices will break you into pieces, they turn you apart such a thing will take years and years to get back together.
If you want to live a great life that you have dreamed of, listen to yourself, your inner voice, your real voice. So if you notice that you will find them chattering inside of your left ear and right ear. Inside you, there is a champion and a loser. There are an angel and a devil. There's is a hero and a villain. So what causes this? Perhaps you will lose your ability, your value, your ideas, your confidence, and your greatness because you have fallen into the trap of comparing yourself with others by listening to the little voices chattering inside of your mind. which is not your real voice. for example -Somebody told you something a long ago but still, their voices are playing inside you and you are experiencing that as little voices at every point of your daily life, which is other people's opinion, other people's judgment, or other people's idea, not yours. But it's all got stored in our mind consciously or unconsciously, still, those words are playing like pre-recorded audio in your mind today, at this moment like-
- "I'm not successful enough like them".
- "I'm not a good enough business person".
- "I'm not a good Player".
- "I don't know how to speak well".
- "I'm too tired".
- "If I do that nobody will like it".
- "Who wants to hear that nonsense from me".
So now the question is, how do we find the Little voices which are good and which are bad? How many of you seen Mickey mouse's cartoon story? I have seen them many times. You will notice that there are always two characters who would each sit on one of Mickey's shoulders. One was the little red devil and the other was the pure white angel. The devil would say, "yeah go ahead and break the rules. Go for it. It's ok to break it!" Meanwhile, the angel would say,, "No! Keep away. Be good. Don't cause trouble. Do the right thing." It was the constant battle between them, an angel and devil fighting each other.
If you are still confused? Then take a deep breath, and feel which little voice is yours, The real yours, that coming from your heart. Initially, it will take a little bit of time but once you find that, it'll follow the rules for the rest of your life...
3 Limited Beliefs You Project Yourself...
Never put yourself in a little cozy box!. Understand your value! & project yourself in such a way that you are the winner, you are born for something unique, whatever it is, you may know there is an old saying "Act in such a way that you cannot fail". expand your belief system. Think outside the box. you know there was an IQ test was nine dots, and you have draw five lines with the pencil, within those nine dots without lifting the pencil. The only way to do that is, to go outside the box. So don't afraid to go outside the box, don't afraid to fail big, don't afraid to think outside the box. Take chances. You only live once so do what you feel passionate about, as I said in my previous article "you cannot win the raffle without buying a ticket". So you have to take risks.
I am sure people told you that make sure you have something to fall back on, make sure you have something to fall back on but I never understood that concept of having something to fall back on. If I'm going to fall I don't want to fall back on anything except my faith. I want to fall forward I figured at least this way I will see what I'm going to hit. Never listen to those peoples opinion which is already stored in your mind and playing like auto prerecorded audio while you wants to do something better or bigger in your life. Every fails experiment is one step closer to success. So you have to take risks, I'm sure You probably heard this before. Nelson Mandela said once- "Everything looks Impossible until someone does it".
So don't allow yourself to controlled by your own limited beliefs. Now a warning with this one. These beliefs may be conscious, but more than likely they are unconscious. They may be unconscious limitations, that have been conditioned in such a way from your young age and throughout your entire life, by listening to those little voices around you. Who never reached for their own dreams. Notice, your own limiting beliefs and tell them to shut up. Remember, there is nothing in this world, that you cannot do or nothing that you can't have or achieve if you really dreamed for. If you believe anything is possible, then you are certain to achieve it.
When you change your belief limited to unlimited, your potential is unlimited. Imagine, what you could achieve if you live your life as though anything is possible. As saying goes; "When there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do you no harm". When you have nothing inside holding you back, there is nothing outside that can hold you back either. Your Entire life will change very instant when you decided to change your mindset, the instant you decided to see, everything as a gift. when you decide to see every circumstance and challenge as a blessing rather than a curse, the very instant you will become conscious of the fact. That everything is as it should be and know that fighting is insane.
Once my Mother said this with a great expression- "To get something that you never had, you have to do something that you never did". So take chances, never hold back and find a purpose "Why" you are doing this? how many people you can help? then ultimately you can see something begins inside you.
4 Bad Relationship...
The relationship a touchy subject, but if you are always needing another to be happy, to feel complete, then you are one moment away from a breakdown if that person leaves you. Is the relationship you are in that is stopping you, from anything you do for your dream? Or if it is not going well? Sometimes it's better to stop. See I'm not suggesting you avoid a relationship. I'll tell you that, there is no force on this earth greater than love & connection. I'm talking about those who can't live if they aren't in such a relationship. those who just to avoid spending a moment being single.
What I'm saying is, to develop enough mental strength that you can get to the point, where you don't need others to make you happy. You are just as happy being alone, as you are in a relationship. There is one more point I would like to say that, your mental strength is everything that you feel, you touch, or you make in your daily life. Mental strength is that powerful, It can make you and also it can break you. It can make you Mentally strong if you neglect it also can make you strongly mental. so it is important to be in a relationship as we need. So always maintain a distance from those bad relationships which is holding you back from your dream, stopping you to do some good.
5 Always Rushing Behind Money...
This is what controls the majority of humans on this planet is the "Money". This does not mean that you shouldn't want abundance. I don't mean money is evil. You know as well as I know that we need to have money to survive in this world. I'm not saying to you that money is not everything, but everything you think, everything you feel, every action you take is because of your belief and values. You may not aware of it, you may not be conscious of it but your value shapes your decisions and your decisions shape your life.
If you value money more than happiness, your life might be full of expensive things but there will be no joy. Your values signal what is important to you. They are emotional states that show you what is important and what you want to experience. Imagine how different your life would be if you changed the value of money and replaced it with the value of love. Creating and stating your values consciously can change the direction of your life if you decided to Value your service rather than money, your life will be full of joy and happiness you will experience that if you try to be.
We need in our lives to be happy. What does this mean? Is that I'm saying to live a life without money? No, I don't mean that. I mean do not allow your decisions to be controlled by money. If you are choosing something only one factor of how much money is involved? then go back and think once. What you will find? Is that when you follow your heart and you lead with your intention to serve others, to give your best to others every single time.
When you follow your intuition and truly give your soul, then the money will come. And it will come in far greater amounts than you simply chase money or for the shake of chasing money. so challenge yourself to live the life how you want to live. free from being controlled by a little voice that chattering within your left ear and right ear money is everything you can't live in this world if you don't have enough money. find money find. Instead of running behind money run behind your value, Your true potential then you will see that abundance a huge amount is running behind you. You'll Find your freedom. Your true joy and happiness.
There is a great Motivational speaker "Less Brown" once said that Imagine you are on your death bed the ghost standing around your death bed and representing your unfulfillment potential, the ghost of the ideas you have never acted on the ghost of the talent you didn't use, they are standing around with angry, disappointed and upset. They said we came to you because you could have brought us to the life they said, but now we have to go to the grave together. So I'm asking you today, how many ghosts will be around your bed when your time comes. So never run behind money always than other things. Help somebody with a true heart. Make somebody's life better than chasing money. You will never find a single successful person in this world, who chase behind money.
Never listen to the negative Voices the little voice chatter inside you!. Understand your value! & project yourself in such a way that you are the winner, you are born for something unique, whatever it is. You know "there was an IQ test was nine dots, and you have to draw five lines with the pencil, within those nine dots without lifting the pencil. The only way to do that is, to go outside the box. So don't afraid to go outside the box, don't afraid to fail big, don't afraid to think outside the box. Take chances. You only live once so do what you feel passionate about, as I said in my previous article "you cannot win the raffle without buying a ticket". So you have to take risks. I am sure people told you that make sure you have something to fall back on, make sure you have something to fall back on but I never understood that concept of having something to fall back on. If I'm going to fall I don't want to fall back on anything except my faith. I want to fall forward I figured at least this way I will see what I'm going to hit. Never listen to those peoples opinion which is already stored in your mind and playing like auto prerecorded audio while you wants to do something better or bigger in your life. Every fails experiment is one step closer to success. So you have to take risks, I'm sure You probably heard this before. Nelson Mandela said once- "Everything looks Impossible until someone does it".